Our tribe consists of a wide variety of diverse sexual subcultures. From body types to sexual specialties, the hues of our sexual rainbow seem to expand on a daily basis. Lumbersexuals and hipsters, genderbenders and leathermen, twinks and daddies, hedonists and conservatives, monogamist and polyamorous, not to mention puppies, pigs, and bears. So many options can cause exhilaration, confusion, angst, and joy. We will discuss our experience as gay men in a sexual subculture that is populated by a dizzying array of specific subcultures. How do we navigate the personal, political, and communal aspects of sexual identity and expression?